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How ONE Easy Post Made 27 Women Text Me First This Month
I'm about to share something that might piss off every woman reading this...
Because I'm giving away one of their biggest secrets.
Women have been using this psychological trick on men for DECADES.
It's how the "popular girls" in high school made every guy obsess over them...
How Instagram models get thousands of desperate guys sliding into their DMs...
And how that girl you're crushing on keeps you wrapped around her finger...
Without actually dating you.
Hot Women Discovered a Psychological Loophole That Most Men KNOW NOTHING ABOUT!
Soon you'll discover how you can flip it in your favor
How to make a man CHASE them effortlessly...
How to stay on his mind 24/7...
...without lifting a finger.
And the crazy part?
They've been doing it right in front of our face this whole time.
We just never noticed.
Think about the last time you were really into a girl...
She'd disappear for days... then pop back up with just enough attention to keep you hooked.
Or she'd post something that made you wonder who she was with... what she was doing... why she seemed so happy WITHOUT you.
That wasn't an accident.
She knew exactly what she
was doing.
But here's what's even crazier...
You Can Use The Same Psychological Loophole To Get Hot Girls To Chase YOU!
When a man flips the script and uses it on a woman he likes... she can't help but feel an urge to CHASE him.
I know this because I've been secretly teaching it to guys for the past year...
These are regular dudes who just discovered how to flip seduction psychology.
The best part?
You can do it in 30 seconds... works on any social media platform (or dating app)... and she has absolutely NO IDEA what you're doing.
To her, you just suddenly became more attractive.
More intriguing.
The kind of guy she can't get out of her head.
But the truth is... you didn't change at all.
You just started using the SAME psychological weapon women have been using on you your entire life.
And once you see how simple this is... you're gonna be PISSED that nobody told you about it sooner.
How's your current approach working out for you?
Because if you're like most guys... you're probably TIRED of always being the one making the first move.
Tired of crafting the "perfect" text message... only to get a one-word response 6 hours later.
(If you get a response at all.)
You're sick of watching her be "too busy" to text back... but somehow she posts Instagram stories every 2 hours.
And you're definitely tired of being the "safe option."
The guy she vents to about OTHER guys.
The one who gets to hear all about her "crazy weekend"... while you were sitting at home wondering why she didn't invite you.
Sound familiar?
Here's the brutal truth nobody wants to admit...
The dating game is RIGGED against nice guys.
While you're following "be yourself" advice... being respectful... waiting 3 days to text... not wanting to seem "too eager"...
Other guys are walking away with the girls you want.
❌ And it's NOT because they're better looking.
❌ Or richer.
❌ Or funnier.
It's because they understand something you don't.
Revelation #1
Women don't want to be chased. They want to do the chasing.
The reason women say they like being chased is because it sounds like they’re in control.
But real control is when they do the chasing — then it’s their choice, their obsession, their investment.
Think of any popular guy in high school – he had girls lining up to get with him, forming fan clubs about them and gossiping about them...
The same fangirls use the nerds who do everything to get with them as a doormat, making them do their homework, and sometimes even their chores.
In fact, even if you zoom out.
Across history, the best selling romantic novels for girls aren't about a guy chasing them — they’re about her risking everything to win him.
Don't listen to what girls say they want...
Take notes on how they behave.
And now that you understand that girls love to chase guys.
Here's the problem... nobody EVER taught you how to make that happen.
So you keep doing what feels "right."
Showing interest... being available... proving you're a good guy.
And every single time... you end up in the same place.
Watching from the sidelines as she dates someone else.
❌ The guy who barely seems to care about her.
❌ The one who takes hours to respond to her texts.
❌ Who always seems to have something better going on.
Meanwhile, you're the one she calls when she needs emotional support.
➡️ When her car breaks down.
➡️ When she's having "friend drama."
➡️ You've become her unpaid therapist... while some other dude gets to be her boyfriend.
And the WORST PART:
You KNOW you'd treat her better.
You know you'd actually appreciate her.
But none of that matters... because attraction doesn't work the way they told you it would.
Revelation #2
Women aren't attracted to the guy who tries the hardest. They're attracted to the guy who makes THEM try hard.
So what is this mysterious technique?
It's called
Selective Visibility.
And it's based on one simple psychological principle:
People want what they can't have.
More specifically... they want what they think OTHER people have access to... but
they don't.
Women have been using this against you your entire dating life.
Every time she posts something that makes you wonder who she's with...
Every time she mentions someone you don't know...
Every time she seems happy about something she won't tell you about...
That's not an accident.
She's strategically controlling what you can see of her life.
Making you feel like you're on the outside looking in.
Like there's this amazing world happening just beyond your reach.
And the only way to get access... is to chase her.
Text her more.
Try harder.
Prove you're worthy of being let in.
But what if you could flip this entire script?
What if instead of being the one trying to get access to her life... SHE was the one wondering what she was missing out on in yours?
What if you could make HER feel like she's on the outside looking in?
And the only way for her to get closer... is to chase YOU.
That's exactly what Selective Visibility does when you use it correctly.
It makes you the prize.
The one with the interesting life.
The guy who has options.
And once you understand how to set this up... the psychology takes over.
She can't help but wonder...
❓ "Who is he with?"
❓ "What is he doing?"
❓ "Why haven't I heard from him?"
And that curiosity?
That's what makes her text you first.
HOW 34 Year Old Ted Used
Selective Visibility
To Go From ZERO Options
TO NOT BEING ABLE TO KEEP UP WITH DEMAND
Let me tell you what happened to Ted...
34, going through a rough divorce.
His ex-wife had completely destroyed his confidence.
Made him feel like he'd NEVER be attractive to another woman again.
He'd been trying to date for months...
But every woman he met seemed bored by him.
They'd go on one date and he'd never hear from them again.
So I showed him exactly how to set up Selective Visibility.
Within two weeks...
Boom.
THREE different women from his past reached out... including his ex-wife!
She started texting him asking what he was up to... who he was hanging out with... if he was "seeing anyone new."
This is the same woman who told him he was "boring" and "predictable" during their divorce.
But here's the crazy part...
Ted hadn't changed anything about himself.
He was still the same guy.
He just started posting differently.
And suddenly, women who had written him off... were curious about him again.
Here's why Selective Visibility works so well...
Women are hardwired to
compete for attention.
For thousands of years, they had to COMPETE with other women for the best male providers.
So they developed this incredible ability to instantly assess their "competition."
And to want what other women had.
This is why women always want to know:
❓ "Who else is interested in you?"
❓ "What other girls are you talking to?"
❓ "Are you seeing anyone else?"
❌ They're not being nosy.
✅ They're running a subconscious calculation.
➡️ "If other women want him... he must be valuable."
➡️ "If he has options... he must be worth competing for."
But here's what most guys get backwards...
They think they need to prove they're NOT talking to other women.
➡️ "Don't worry, you're the only one I'm interested in."
❌ WRONG MOVE.
Because when you eliminate all competition... you eliminate all urgency.
Revelation #3
When she knows she's your only option... there's NO rush to lock you down.
But when she suspects other women might want you... everything changes.
Suddenly, she's in competition mode.
Suddenly, there's urgency.
Suddenly, SHE needs to move fast before some other girl snatches you up.
That's exactly what Selective Visibility taps into.
By controlling what she can see of your life... you're creating the impression of female competition.
Even when there isn't any.
My name is Alex Meyers.
My name is Alex Meyers.
And I've spent the last 10 years figuring this stuff out the hard way.
I've also worked behind the scenes with some of the biggest names in the pickup industry.
The guys you follow on YouTube.
And I'm About To Share
A Sobering Truth
That These So Called "Pickup Artists" Won't Like
Most of the advice they're selling you?
Complete BULLSHIT.
Those "say these 5 words" programs?
The pickup lines and conversation starters?
The "alpha male" routines?
I helped write half of that crap.
And I can tell you right now...
It doesn't work anymore.
Because:
Women can spot traditional "game" from a mile away.
They've heard every line.
Seen every trick.
Been approached by every "alpha" wannabe on the planet.
Their bullshit detectors are finely tuned.
But here's what nobody talks about...
While these gurus were teaching men outdated pickup techniques...
Women were developing their OWN psychological strategies.
Strategies that actually work.
And after seeing their Instagram habits up close... after watching how they manipulated guys without even thinking about it...
I realized something HUGE.
Women aren't just better at dating than men.
Women are playing a completely different game.
And that game is based on making men chase them.
That's why I created...
THE DM SWITCH
The ONLY guide that shows you how to use Selective Visibility to get girls texting first.
Here's screenshots from customers' inboxes:
Instead of trying to impress women with what you show them...
You strategically control what you DON'T show them.
You make them curious about the parts of your life they can't see.
You create the impression that other women are already interested... without ever having to lie or fake anything.
And you do it all through the apps and platforms you're already using.
❌ No pickup lines.
❌ No complicated routines.
❌ No pretending to be someone you're not.
Just strategic visibility that makes women want to chase.
Most dating products like this charge anywhere from $197 to $997.
So...
I was thinking of charging at least $97 for The DM Switch.
Which is more than a fair price for showing men in just 30 minutes how they can make women initiate and start chasing.
Because this is what I show in copious detail:
The female strategy I STOLE that made 27 women text me at 2 AM this month admitting they were stalking me (online, not in-person 🙏) – page 2
How to make her create fantasies about you in her head (she'll check your profile daily, send screenshots to her friends and come up with ways to get your attention) – page 4
Why NEVER committing this one "sin" most guys are guilty of makes you the man she can’t figure out and in turn she starts obsessing over – page 24
5 attraction formulas that make her text you first – page 19
How this overlooked social media feature creates instant FOMO... She’ll be texting you first, asking questions and making the conversation easy... Asking her out is gonna be a layup (with 18 examples!) – page 5
How women engineer intrigue that hooks guys so badly they don’t even realize they’re falling for them... Showing you their EXACT tactic – page 3
The most underrated tactic that makes it 10X more likely she’ll text you – page 25
Why the hottest girls are hardwired to chase men who do this one COUNTERINTUITIVE thing (most guys do the exact opposite and get ghosted) – page 29
30-second method that creates more attraction than any text you can ever send her – page 38
How to make women feel like they know you intimately without even texting them or ACTUALLY revealing anything about yourself (this is the ultimate setup that gets her to agree to hang out with you in no more 7 messages!) – page 22
The 5-step method that can make women compete for you even if you haven’t got any action in months – page 41
99% of guys make this fatal mistake when she FINALLY texts first – page 31
The 22-strategy playbook making you so magnetic she initiates the first move (WITHOUT you saying a single word or sending a single message) – pages 5-8
And much, much, MUCH more!
But if you're okay with that?
Here's the OFFICIAL price I settled on for The DM Switch:
Only $47.
That's less than one failed Tinder date.
Less than a month of dating app premium.
Less than what you'd spend on drinks hoping she'll text back.
Here's the catch:
Once too many men start using this...
Women will catch on.
And I'd rather give this to the guys who take action fast.
That's why I've set my systems to allow just 3 purchases per ZIP code.
So if it goes through...
You're golden.
Plus I'm Backing This with My 365-Day Refund Policy
Try it on your ex who's ignoring you.
Test it on that girl from work.
If you don't see women becoming more curious about your life... if they don't start reaching out more...
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When you stopped chasing and started being chased.
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- Alex Meyers
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